This was virtually the ideal result – so ‘lack of performance’ was not down to psychological issues and what she would perceive as her fault. She was happy I am sure.
The Next Cutting
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Through my teens and twenties I did not have a girlfriend.
Blame me, blame my Asian background – this is not an uncommon story. The women
whom I did like, I lacked the confidence to do anything about so as not to
threaten a friendship. A good friend’s mum asked him whether I was gay?!
I had written diaries in my teens but in my twenties I wrote
a lot of letters to friends and relations. The feedback that I’ve had from them
has always been appreciative and positive. Being somewhat lonely, I suppose the
letters helped me and were enjoyed by others.
Now, there used to be a writer called James Thurber who
always kept copies of his correspondence. Partly inspired by this, I also kept
copies of what I wrote and retained the ones I received. They became my diary.
A little strange perhaps but a chronicle of sorts – and we would today use
Facebook maybe.
‘Did the GP ask you whether you had had girlfriends when you
were young? If your friend had been a GP he would have. Your friends should be
told about this. This explains it. Instead of chasing after girls, you were
writing letters and keeping photocopies – how weird is that.’
So…
Where she wanted sympathy for a potential early menopause,
the nearest male equivalent evinces the response above.
Does depression lead to low testosterone or does low testosterone lead to depression? Whichever it may be, I am there ....
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